The boys have been wanting a tree for their room for a couple of years now. They found one that they liked last month, but decided they would wait to buy it until December. I surprised them and purchased their tree for them over the weekend. They had fun setting it up this today after church. I walked in and found the tree complete with a "star" on top.
Loved Tim's creative thinking and Alex's cooperative spirit to agree to his brother's choice of tree toppers.
The other two Angry Birds friends that Tim has are also on the tree as "ornaments". So cute!
I reminded myself of this recently.
It's not about me at all, this wellness journey I am on to a healhier version of myself.
Not at all.
Never has been, really.
It is about the people who invest in me. My husband. My boys. My family. My friends.
They all share themselves with me. When I am not at my best, I'm not giving them a good return for their investment.
They get the tired looks, the lack of energy excuses, and the wimpy "maybe next time" cop outs. I have come to realize that those that take precious time to invest in me deserve better from me. I need to adhere to the direction given on any flight I've ever been on that goes something like this: make sure your own oxygen mask is properly secured before helping others. If I don't take care of myself first, my ability to care for others effectively diminishes quickly. My choosing clean eating, drinking enough water, and exercising on a daily basis is how I put on my mask first. Am I perfect at meeting the n…